«Te amaré eternamente… y otros mitos de la vida en pareja», un libro de Diana Wang

Nos arrojamos a las relaciones de pareja ilusionados y convencidos de que el amor y el deseo durarán por siempre. Pero esa sensación de mariposas en la panza, que algunos llaman infatuación, no es eterna. Con suerte, cuando el fuego se va apagando, queda el rescoldo tibio y amable de una buena relación, confianza, lazos familiares y expectativas a futuro.

Nos hemos formado en una cultura que lee todo lo anterior como un pobre consuelo ante la falta del fuego sublime de la pasión desatada. Y pasado un tiempo, descubrimos que tenemos poco en común con el otro, que las peleas son una constante y que no coincidimos en casi nada.

Con la extensión de la vida y el cambio de paradigma de este siglo, la pareja de larga data tambalea, aunque el tema ha recibido poca atención en nuestra sociedad. ¿Cómo hacemos para sostener un proyecto de a dos en un mundo donde la idea de enamorarse para siempre ya no tiene tanta fuerza?

La psicóloga Diana Wang, con casi cinco décadas de ejercicio como terapeuta de parejas, recaba algunas observaciones, consejos y lecciones que fue aprendiendo tanto de sus pacientes como de su experiencia personal. Con humor, calidez y realismo, aborda temas como el dinero, el sexo, la monogamia, la fidelidad, los hijos, los nietos, los suegros, el espacio personal, los secretos, los divorcios, las nuevas parejas y las familias ensambladas. Este libro extraordinario es una lectura imprescindible para todos los que quieren seguir apostando a la misteriosa aventura de compartir la vida con otra persona.

Diana Wang se casó dos veces. Su primer matrimonio duró dos años. El segundo cumplió 44 en 2019. Ambas experiencias, sumadas a su ejercicio profesional, le han enseñado todo lo que escribió en este libro: alegrías y desdichas, frustraciones y logros, aburrimientos y despertares.

Nacida en Polonia a poco de terminada la Segunda Guerra Mundial, Diana reside en Buenos Aires desde los dos años. Sus padres tuvieron la suerte de sobrevivir a la ignominia nazi y llegaron a la Argentina en 1947. Enamoradiza y entusiasta, la autora recibió a los doce años su primer beso en un atardecer de verano. La parábola de la vida en pareja comenzó muy temprano. Cuando su mamá supo de aquel noviecito al que llamaba «simpatía» la abrazó diciendo: «¿Qué apuro tenés? Se sufre mucho en el amor». Diana se ha empeñado desde entonces en que el amor sea fuente de disfrute y alegría y que la sombra del sufrimiento se mantuviera lejos y a resguardo. No siempre lo ha logrado. Pero lo que sí aprendió es que se puede.

Egresada de la Universidad de Buenos Aires, Diana trabaja en su consultorio privado desde hace casi cincuenta años, especializada en vínculos de pareja. Además, es columnista de La Nación y miembro del Museo del Holocausto. Como autora, publicó De terapias y personas junto con Musia Auspitz (1997), El silencio de los aparecidos (1998), Los niños escondidos: del Holocausto a Buenos Aires (2004), Hijos de la guerra: la segunda generación de sobrevivientes de la Shoá (2007), Volver: crónicas en forma de cartas sobre un viaje de regreso a Polonia y Ucrania (2012), Con una piedra en el zapato (2013) y Surviving Silence (2013). Hoy disfruta de su familia y acompaña a sus cuatro hijos y ocho nietos con las mismas dudas, incertidumbres y fragilidades que ella tuvo en la vida y en el amor.

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